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By Zola Ray Oct. I used to see this "chill personality" as a goal to strive for. But soon I got so caught up in trying to be the "Cool Girl" that I forgot to be myself. When I was in high school, I believed that an hourglass figure was the epitome of womanhood. This of course, is not true, but at the time I was unsatisfied with my narrow hips.

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I brought up topics that would often be considered inappropriate. More accurately, they laugh and I die of a cringe attack. Having a love of sports and being girrl adventurous were too far from reality for me to even attempt.

I stopped taking selfies. No problem babe! As our friendships grew, we talked about society, intersectional feminism and pretty much any topic that came to our minds. If I ever allowed my emotions to get the best of me, especially in a situation with a man, I would claim it was a fluke.

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I used to see this "chill personality" as a goal to strive for. The idea of a girl who is endlessly understanding and who never gets angry is, frankly, kind of disturbing. Long story short: Ror was a huge hypocrite. In spite of these habits, I tried to feign a laid-back personality. I can be a bit of an over sharer in certain social situations. Cool Girls never get angry; they only smile in a chagrined, loving manner and let their men do whatever they want.

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By Zola Ray Oct. This of course, is not true, but at the time I was unsatisfied with my narrow hips.

And women: cool has always been overrated. I initially thought I was doing something revolutionary, engaging in a feminist act. I rarely drink alcohol. I was, after all, attempting to fit a trope that was based upon the way men view women.

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It makes her two-dimensional and subservient, with a stunted spectrum of emotions — less than human, almost. I could be sure to receive some playful jabs when I took mirror selfiesor applied makeup just to go to the library. Sure, we Lkoking real conversations about life. I like shopping for dresses, but most days I wear jeans.

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And it blew my tiny judgmental mind. After all, I was no longer embodying the hyper-feminine trope that women had been forced into copl the past. It soon became clear to me that I was too concerned with how men perceived me. I bragged that my drink of choice was beer, a try-hard comment that my friends and I laugh at in retrospect.

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Olivia Wilde in Drinking Buddies Even if someone has gurl Cool Girl attributes — laid-back, into sports, genuinely enjoys a beer and a burger while maintaining the figure of a Broadway dancer — the only way to truly embody the Cool Girl spirit is by never, ever getting pissed off. Hot and understanding. Images: Comedy Central. Fog had allowed internalized misogyny to color my opinion of femininity and of myself. One of my biggest fears was appearing dramatic.

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I tend to overthink things, which le to non-clinical anxiety and causes me coool act in irrational ways. You may as well go out with a Japanese body pillow. But soon I got so caught up in trying to be the "Cool Girl" that I forgot to be myself. Because, as Amy realises, she is merely an illusion conjured up by Hollywood to unwittingly torture us all.

We all recognised the cool girl from gillian flynn's gone girl. but as daisy buchanan discovered, trying to be her is a recipe for unhappiness

So men: be honest with yourselves. And so Gone Girl, a reasonably well-written thriller with a twist, felt no different to all the rest; just one in a long line of books enjoying a groundswell of popularity that's disproportionate to its merit. I have a somewhat crude sense of humor.

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